How to get your ex back (follow these 7 steps!)
How to get your ex back?
If you have experienced deep and true love you will know just how magical and blissful an experience it can be.
Romantic, intimate and sexual partners are here to show us parts of ourselves and to help us grow, and this is especially true if you have been blessed with a soulmate as a girlfriend or boyfriend.
Relationships can make us feel alive, full of energy and the universal life force that flows through this world and the earth, and confident and self- expressive.
They can even connect us to expanded and evolved creativity, imaginative self- expression and unique artistic or intellectual gifts and talents. Quite simply, love is the fuel to our inner flames.
So, when this “light goes out,” this often leaves us feeling disconnected from ourselves and the world around.
We may possess a strong intuitive knowing and internal pull- an instinctual force birthed from both physicality and the higher self saying that we are meant to be with this person, and that the breakup or split is only temporary. You should always listen to your heart and higher self (the higher mind!) and follow your inner joy and bliss.
Without further ado, here are the most powerful and profound ways to attract an ex back into your life and rekindle the flame.
1.Self- love is key
Possibly the most important thing to be aware of is the significance of self- love. When you love yourself, your inner vibration ripples out and affects your external reality.
People pick up on the love and respect you have for yourself, they can feel your subtle intentions, emotional well – being and mental- psychological state of health and harmony.
With self- love one gives out an aura or demeanour, stating “I am content and blissful within my own self and being. I love myself and am worthy, possess amazing self- esteem, and am kind to myself. I have self- compassion and self- awareness and seek to treat others with the same love and adoration I give to myself.” It is a beautiful quality and frequency to have and hold and one which is incredibly attractive!
Please note self- love should not be confused with narcissism or egocentricity. To have self- love is to actively and consciously engage in self- care and spiritual enhancement and perception.
You begin to see yourself and the world in a conscious, loving, interconnected and empowered way, with compassion and empathy as the foundation. Narcissism is defined by selfishness and self- centeredness as the motivation of all actions and behaviours.
Narcissists are primarily focused on the “I” or ego and live to serve themselves, often at the expense of others. Their “self- love” is also delusional- it is not rooted in beauty, honesty or empathy but in a distorted perception of self and reality which further allows them to treat others in less than kind and pure ways. Self- love is the complete opposite.
2. A Positive mindset
Health is a state of mind. Mind is a state of frequency. The law of attraction (LOA) works on the natural laws of vibration and frequency. The significance? A positive healthy mindset is a key ingredient in your capacity for success!
Engaging in meditation, mindfulness, sound therapy and healing, soulwork, self- development through metaphysics, spirituality and philosophy, and techniques such as neuro- linguistic programming or self- therapy will shift your conscious mind from negative to positive, pessimistic to optimistic, and suffering from lack or “poverty consciousness” to abundance and prosperity consciousness.
Consciousness is the basis of mental, emotional and spiritual health. It is also the foundation for love and success in living your best life, or becoming the best version of yourself.
Once we start to shift the way we perceive, think and feel, we begin to actively change and affect physical reality- and this includes relationships. Authentic bonds and connections can be formed, or re- formed, through a positive mindset.
Hint: Don’t confuse positivity and optimism with ignorance or avoidance. There is a difference between choosing to overlook and repress or avoid real problems or issues, and mindfully- with full awareness- choose to see things in an optimistic light. Being positive involves an internal shift in perception and conscious awareness.
3. Learn to adapt and embrace the journey
The ability to adapt and be flexible is paramount in attracting your ex. So is surrendering to the journey. If you are always living in the future or a “when” or “what if” scenario, how can you expect to enjoy life in the present?
All manifestation starts in the now- in each current moment. When you feel good you attract more of the same. Being content, peaceful and happy by yourself is essential to achieving happiness in a relationship. Also, recognizing that everything happens in divine timing can help you to embody self- acceptance.
What if you are meant to be together but one or both partners needed to do some healing, self- development and learning? Life involves growth and cycles and nothing is transient! But everything is transient and this teaching should be applied to the period of separation you and your soulmate or sweetheart experience. Surrender, be adaptable and embrace the journey. Your time is coming!
4. Accept your own shadow
The shadow self and its acceptance is integral to rekindling a flame and coming back together with your lover once more. It has been mentioned many times but needs to be shared again; we all have a light and a dark, a shine and a shadow.
The shadow self is the parts of personality and self often undesired, repressed and denied- the parts we may see as dark, impure or unholy. Yet the shadow self is a fundamental part of being human, it is part of the human experience!
Accepting and also taking steps to embody, balance and integrate your shadow self is therefore highly important to your capacity for true love and intimacy. A lot of sexual fantasies and desires, including lust and eroticism, are associated with the shadow self. It is the denial or repression of such things that leads to imbalance and a lot of the problems we see today in sexual and intimate partnerships.
5. Heal yourself!
Just like self- love and accepting your shadow healing yourself is another key pointer. Healing is wholeness and we can’t expect to be harmonious, happy and healthy in a relationship if we are not these things inside first.
Self- healing includes self- care- massage, taking relaxing baths with essential oils, reading and having you time, immersing yourself in fun creative and artistic expression, going on peaceful nature walks, self- therapy such as meditation and sound therapy, and generally being kind and gentle to yourself.
Soul searching and “shadow work” can also be extremely profound in your healing journey, and this refers to exploring your subconscious and shadow self through the use of dreams, journaling and introspective activities. Your subconscious mind is linked closely to emotions and hidden or behind the scenes beliefs, feelings and internal currents.
Getting to the root and truth of these unseen motivational forces and factors will open you up to new pathways for health, well- being and self- awareness- the key ingredients to any successful and sparkling relationship.
6. Become your own soulmate, best friend and lover…
Soulmates is something which need to be acknowledged. We have toxic love and soulmate love; “karmic” love where we are still plagued by lower vibrational behaviors and thinking patterns, and “higher” love where connection operates on a higher frequency functioning.
To attract the ideal partner you must first be the ideal partner, and vice versa. No- one likes someone who is possessive, overly- jealous, bitter and argumentative or mean- spirited.
Qualities such as empathy, compassion, emotional intelligence and depth, inner beauty, intelligence, intuition, kindness and sincerity are deeply beautiful and attractive.
Unless you are hoping to get back with a narcissist (and we really hope you aren’t!) no- one will think these things weird, strange or undesirable- unless, again, you are dealing with someone of an immature mental and emotional capacity. Thus, to rekindle the flame you need to be your own best friend and lover.
Soulmates are here to teach us about parts of ourselves and then ultimately share in that love and awareness. Furthermore, being confident, self- assured and soulfully independent are extremely attractive qualities to possess. Knowing thyself is sexy!
7. Follow Your Passion(s)
Finally- but certainly not any less significant, a person who follows their passion and lives by their truth is one of the most attractive and magnetic characteristics anyone could hope to embody.
Passion is the spark of life, the seed of desire, and the catalyst for positive and exciting change. Without passion, life can become stagnant and un-zestful lacking in life and vitality. And your partner picks up on this…
Step into the super- confident, optimistic, joyful, self- expressive, wise and perceptive person that you are. Be soulful, serious and ambitious, playful and light- hearted, intuitive and sensual.
Live your life with grace and self- autonomy whilst also opening yourself to authentic connection and depth… Be affectionate, loving, kind and wise. Most importantly, take steps to heal and step fully into your divine and empowered self. Self- love is the key.
Twin Flame Connections and the Divine Purpose
A twin flame love and connection is rare, magical and unique. We have many soulmates in one lifetime but only a few, or one, special twin flame. This is because the twin flame love and bond vibrates at a powerful and supreme frequency; there is no connection quite like it.
Without further ado, let’s explore the twin flame connection in all of its beauty and glory.
What is the difference between a Soulmate and a Twinflame?
Soulmates are here to teach us a lesson, to teach us about aspects of our self and our journey. A soulmate bond shows itself so we can learn, evolve and heal – we can transcend lower vibrational ways of being, behavior and thought through soulmate connections.
Soulmate love or bonds may come into our lives for deep healing and releasing. For example, we may still be holding onto emotional blocks, issues and trauma which a soulmate can help us release.
We alternatively may have outdated, limiting or self- destructive beliefs and mindsets preventing our evolution and self or spiritual development. A soulmate connection helps us transcend this.
Soulmates are also here to show us the “unseen” and invisible parts of self, particularly in relation to soul and spirit.
Maybe you are just beginning your spiritual journey and awakening, or are new to meditation, metaphysical teachings and ancient wisdom, so a soulmate enters your life to guide you along your path.
Or, perhaps you are literally in need of some very obvious healing and you therefore attract a soulmate for personal transformation and growth, someone more mature and further along their own path? Hopefully these few examples give an accurate idea of the purpose and essence of a soulmate connection.
A twinflame bond, however, is the next stage and step in your evolutionary journey. You ultimately only come together with a twin flame once you have done the healing work yourself.
The healing work is referring to the years and copious amounts of energy, self- love and healing taken towards healing your mind, body and spirit. Also, your mental body, emotional body, physical body, spiritual body and aura/ astral and etheric existence.
Your twin flame is your reflection, your mirror and your soul’s counterpart. You share the same foundational vibrational energy and essence, beliefs and dreams, goals and wishes, philosophies and perspectives, and quite possibly gifts, talents and soul abilities.
Sacredness and divinity are the underlying core threads to your bond and love, and you both primarily operate from your higher self.
Sacredness and Divine Union
Expanding on, twin flame love is very, very sacred and special. It is similar to the special bond shared between soulmates, however goes a step above and beyond.
Synonyms for sacred include holy, devotional and spiritual, and this is exactly what the twin flame connection is and represents. When two twins come together in love, intimacy and holy union there is an element of divine union- a sacred union of two souls recognizing each other and how they have walked together many times before.
Twin flames know each other, they have shared past lives and will share future lives. There are two main purposes of twin flame love. Let’s explore these now.
Purpose 1: To experience love and happiness on the highest of planes
Experiencing love, joy, connection and happiness on the highest possible frequency- in the strongest vibration- is ultimately one of the main purposes of the twin flame sacred union.
The ecstasy, bliss and sense of holy union felt and experienced by both twins is simply indescribable, it is one of the most, if not the most, highest expression of joy, love and liberation known to mankind.
There is a feeling of transcendental awareness and higher knowing with a twin flame union, and this is intuitively and instinctively known by both partners.
Instincts are strong and on point, intuition is activated and integrated, and both partners operate with a sense of spiritual and divine knowing and recognition. This recognition is of their connection and love, part and place in the world, and of the spiritual energy that permeates life itself.
Finally, both twins in the twin flame sacred union act, speak and perceive with soul- they are wholly aware of their soulful and timeless essence.
Concepts such as multidimensionality, infinite being, non- linear time and eternal nature are not only understood but also embodied.
They are aware that their love exists and stems beyond time and space. On the earth plane, the laughter, sheer joy and divine union that exists between them is of the highest expression.
There is no bickering, judgements or “lower” behaviors and emotional displays such as in karmic or even some soulmate relationships & bonds; they have transcended the lower dimensional states of being and risen higher, in love.
Purpose 2: To come together in divine and sacred union for a shared mission or purpose
Having a shared mission or purpose is fundamental to the twin flame bond. This is something which separates and distinguishes a true twin flame connection to a soulmate or karmic one.
Twinflames are birthed from the same cosmic DNA, the same energetic frequency and soulful essence. So they share the same skills, talents, motivation and intentions for humanity and planet earth.
Examples: two humanitarian aid workers travelling the world to be of assistance to those in need… two musicians or artists of some kind with a shared mission… two healers, shamans or spiritual healers with the same intentions and skillset, being of service to benefit others.
Or two eco- activists sharing their love and passion for healing and helping the earth with communities and sustainable organizations. These are just a few possibilities, but hopefully you get the idea!
The twin flame bond is birthed first and foremost from soul and spirit, the essence of both being and our human physical reality.
Some relationships are birthed from purely physicality or primal wants and needs, therefore there will be issues, imbalances and distortions in many other essential elements and aspects of life, and the relationship.
Some relationships are formed from solely mental or emotional similarities, henceforth- again- a sense of holism (all- encompassing/ complete) will be missing.
But with a twin flame love two souls have come together from a balanced, integrated and pure state of mind, body, heart and soul. Like the well known analogy of “the onion,” they have not had to peel away the layers to get to the core; they were already in touch and tune with their core and met (came together in divine sacred union) from that level.
Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine
The divine masculine and divine feminine are two well known concepts for anyone familiar with new age terms and speech. And these are integral concepts of the twin flame connection.
We are all said to operate as primary masculine and feminine. It is usually the case that if we are male, we are more masculinely inclined and, if we are female, more femininely inclined and oriented. We also have astrological and celestial influences, such as our ruling planet.
For example, if you are Cancer you are more feminine as the Moon is Cancer’s ruling planet, and the Moon is of a negative or feminine polarity. If you are Aries you are more masculinely inclined as Aries is ruled by Mars, a positive/ masculine polarity planet.
Yet, with twin flame sacred union both twins are balanced within. There is unity within and this then reflects outwards into your relationship.
With a twin flame relationship or sacred union both twins are balanced within. Divine masculine and feminine qualities are balanced, merged, harmonized and integrated/ embodied, and this reflects outwards into the relationship. Thus, the twin flame bond is symbolized by a coming together of dual forces, a unity within duality.
This means that duality, wholeness and completion are key themes with the twin flame connection.
The divine masculine and divine feminine are two aspects of one circle, and this metaphorical circle is present within each twin first and further within the relationship/ connection.
Completion can also be seen to be present because to find and merge on all levels with your twin flame is to complete an important stage in the soul’s evolutionary journey.
Mental, emotional, physical and spiritual healing must be present and have had occurred, and achieving wholeness, balance and integration within must also be achieved before the same qualities can be reflected externally to a partner.
This means that masculine and feminine energies need to be completely healed, balanced and integrated before you can “vibe” on the same level (frequency) with a partner.
Below are some key characteristics of the divine masculine and divine feminine. To show their power and significance, we have include some potential dualistic (opposing) behaviors and characteristics of the wounded masculine and wounded feminine, which are often seen in karmic or less evolved relationships.
These can also help you to understand the twin flame bond better in all of its magnificence!
- Present and aware
- Protective, caring and supporting
- Strong sense of purpose
- Capable of empathy and emotional connection
- Discerning and decisive
Wounded Masculine (Non- Twin Flame)
- Manipulative, lacking empathy and awareness
- Forceful, domineering and dominant
- Controlling and demanding
- Completely detached from divine feminine qualities
- Over- doing, over- thinking, uncontrolled and imbalanced
- Intuitive & instinctual
- Expressive and radiant
- Compassionate and empathic
- Adaptable, balanced and compromising
Wounded Feminine (Non- Twin Flame)
- Disconnected from feelings and emotions, repressed
- Shame, guilt- driven, and unworthy. Low self- esteem
- Weak boundaries
- Codependent, always apologizing and over- explaining
- Inflexible, stubborn, insecure and fearful of masculine qualities, or men in general. Alternatively, overly masculine and aggressive
These lists are just a rough representation of the divine masculine and feminine qualities within us all.
Telepathy and telepathic connection
Telepathy is the ability to know what someone else is thinking, feeling and operating on the inner levels of being.
It can almost be seen as an advanced form of empathy and it is something that twin flames possess. You and your twin may just know when the other is about to call, or show up at your door unannounced.
You will most likely be able to feel what they are feeling from afar, such as experiencing extreme or intense feelings the moment they do. Your telepathic connection is a psychic gift which connects you through time and space.
You may be aware that dolphins use a supersonic special radar to communicate through the ocean’s waves. You may also be aware that snakes can sense energy and subtle vibration through their tongues, or that bats use echolocation to “see” sounds.
Well, these may give you a clearer image of twin flame telepathy. In essence, these examples and many more are what twin flames can do and are capable of, and further what many experience on a day to day basis.
The power and significance of telepathy amongst twinflames should not go undervalued, as it shows just how magical and divine your connection is.
It can help you to understand the sacredness of your union and how your love transcends the perceived limitations of the human mind and 3d reality experience. Amazing stuff!
Twin flame synchronicity
Finally and to conclude this article, twin flame synchronicity is a common phenomena.
This refers to the fact that many twin flames awaken at the same time, regardless of how close or far you are, or if you have ever met! You share highly significant and essential aspects of the same timeline and earth journey.
You go through the same trials and tribulations, lessons and teachings, and you experience the highs, lows, joys and downfalls simultaneously.
It doesn’t matter if you have been in each other’s lives, as friends or acquaintances, or if you live on the other side of the planet… you and your twin share a natural harmonic resonance and natural vibration.
You are one and connected, and your synchronous awakening is usually some catalytic or harmonious event which brings you together, or at least into full alignment with your true self and the core of your soul, so you can meet later.
Want to know when you will meet your twinflame? A love psychic reading can offer you great insights into your twinflame love. You can connect with one of our online psychics via Call or Chat to one of our twin flame specialist today at Zenory.
Have you been Soulmate Friendzoned?
Have you been Soulmate Friendzoned?
Are you in love with your soulmate but they have pushed back or become distant? We often hear from many clients that call to ask why their soulmate has become distant or why the dynamic has suddenly changed.
More times than often, because one of the soulmates is not ready, they put their soulmate into the “friends”only category. This causing the soulmate who is ready to feel hurt, abandoned, frustrated, lost, confused, and betrayed.
There’s no way around the fact that soulmate relationships are really complex and complicated. Soulmate connections are hard to navigate, and can often make the soulmate who is questioning themselves feel insane, or not worthy and lose self respect and self love.
Today, we are discussing one fairly common scenario found in soulmate relationships, and this is when you are in the Soulmate Friendzone. They say love has a wide way in and a narrow way out, and, ironically, the same is true for the friendzone as well.
You may not be able to pinpoint what was exactly what took you to the friendzone, yet here you are! A witness to your soulmate’s dating life, joys and disappointments included, while they don’t seem to realize what is right in front of them.
Of course it hurts to be in a situation in which you feel doomed to watch a parade of lovers that couldn’t be more inadequate for your soulmate, or worse, when you see how they get hurt in relationships that look highly incompatible from the outside but…
What can you do?
Well, not all is lost, but in order to make a change, there are attitudes that you can modify so that you get this situation to finally move.
First of all, it is important to understand that soulmate relationships are not necessarily meant to end up as romantic relationships, and in fact, many don’t! Nonetheless, this doesn’t mean that you have no choice but to stay in a situation that is painful for you. It is also important to note that most soulmate connections are here to teach us lessons.
You should enlighten yourself and become more open to recieving the lesson by tapping into a form of meditation practice, or anything to do with self help, self awareness and self development.
Tapping into these practices and learnings will help release alot of tension and hurt that you carry with you through this experience. And either way, whatever the outcome is, you are stronger to reconnect or move into a better path then are currently in.
Soulmate connections are powerful
One of the main things that you need to keep in mind is that this sort of connection goes beyond others. As well, friendship if usually quite underrated but, when you think about it, it is quite often way more reliable than a romantic relationship.
Friendships that last for a lifetime are fairly more common than romantic relationships that last for a lifetime, so don’t underestimate a soulmate relationship in the form of friendship.
Now, taking this into account, there is still some room for movement when it comes to the friendzone. Taking someone for granted, is poison for all relationships, soulmate or not, so here’s were your power lies.
When your soulmate gets accustomed to your unconditional presence, no matter what, they may not be appreciating you enough, and in this case is when removing yourself from the equation can trigger change. After all, if you are pursuing romance, it makes no sense to stay for something that you are not looking for, so becoming less available and make your absence felt, can trigger different feelings in your soulmate.
A different approach
To this is becoming available in the dating pool and let your soulmate see that you are not waiting for them and that you have a romantic life of your own. Knowing that you will be always there, just in case, doesn’t really incite any sort of rush on your soulmate’s end to make a decision, and allows them to continue dating and experimenting, because you will be there at any given point. At this point in the situation, some jealousy could come in really handy!
Also, while love is something else, infatuation is a chemical reaction that can be triggered. Physical touch is your ally in this situation, though be careful to not cross the line and become overly handsy! Touch your soulmate’s forearm, make prolonged eye-contact, hug tight and take advantage of every opportunity that you have to show physical affection in a friendly way.
Activities that increase adrenaline are also incredibly powerful to release serotonine, the hormone of happiness, which triggers feelings of infatuation, so next time you meet up, it could be interesting to do something a little more daring that could be the key to get you two closer.
If none of this works, there are three different options from this point on. First, you may need to face the possibility that your soulmate relationship perhaps is not meant to become romantic, and in this case, you may want to consult an expert on the matter to help you figure it out and give you some guidance about how to move forward.
A different option is actively working with your feelings so that they match the situation and the friendship doesn’t become frustrating. A thought that helps with this is that your feelings are your own and don’t need reciprocation.
The third one can be tough but healthy in the long way, and it is reminding that even if they are your soulmate, it doesn’t mean that you are obliged to stay in a situation that hurts you, and if the thought of staying friends with someone for whom you have romantic feelings hurts to much, you have the perfect right to remove yourself from it and move on.
Having a romantic relationship with your soulmate doesn’t necessarily mean the ultimate emotional satisfaction, and you can have a happy romance with a different soulmate or with someone who is not your soulmate at all.
If you would like to know more about your soulmate relationship or if you are struggling with the soulmate friend zoned category, talk to one of our love psychics today through a chat or phone psychic reading online.
Do Soulmates Separate And Reunite?
Do Soulmates Separate And Reunite?
The Soulmate experience is always challenging, and there are lots of myths associated with this kind of connection.
There’s a very widespread misunderstanding that Soulmate relationships are meant to be and that, regardless of the circumstance, the two Soulmates will find a way to be together and live happily ever after but that is not always true.
While Soulmate relationships share a deep connection and intensity and you may feel like you can’t live without your soulmate, it doesn’t mean that they are meant to be.
Do soulmates always re-unite?
A Soulmate will enter your life when the time is right, but they may not necessarily stay. There are different reasons for soulmate separations. One of the most common is bad timing. When one of the soulmates involved, or even both soulmates, are not in the right place to enter this relationship.
In other cases, there are chances for a posterior reunion and some cases there won’t be. It is true as well that sometimes, the intensity of the soulmate connection is just too intense and one of the soulmates feels overwhelmed, returning later – or not – to the soulmate connection at all.
It is important to remember that we are here to live the human experience, and often, the ego is in control of the decision making.
A Soulmate can often sometimes be abusive or un-deserving of our commitment, and in this case, separating from your soulmate is the best thing that you can do for yourself, and your soulmate.
Doing this may actually increase your changes of the reunite, the space can bring more clarity and give the soulmate a chance to miss you.
Another reason for separation one of the Soulmates may not be interested in the sort of intense connection or relationship, or they may have chose or feel comfortable to stay single, in which case, the soulmate separation is also a strong possibility.
It is vital to remember that the whole point of the Soulmate journey is focused on our own individual growth and not necessarily the pursuit of a romantic relationship.
If you have to go through the soulmate separation of your Soulmate, final or not, keep in mind that you can still find blissful joy and happiness in another relationship and that you are worthy of someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.
If your looking to gain more insights into your soulmate or understand the intensity of the soulmate connection, it maybe helpful to consider a soulmate psychic reading with a online psychic at Zenory.
What if your Soulmate is already married?
What if your Soulmate is already married?
When your soulmate is married you might be asking how did you fall for a married man or women?
Can a married man be your soulmate?
If your soulmate married to someone else? What should you do?
If you have found yourself in this situation where your soulmate is married to someone else, you will be feeling like the world is about to end.
The soulmate connection is felt by both of you and the meeting between you both had you both feeling the intensity of the soulmate connection, but none of you had any idea or intention to fall into this situation, but it happens.
If this is what you are going through at the moment know that your not on your own.
You maybe asking yourself how you came to this situation, and why the universe has brought you to this intense soulmate connection.
You may also be wondering if there is going to be a chance that your soulmate will leave their marriage.
Truthfully the answer is no, or not anytime soon.
This can be one of the most difficult situations a soulmate will ever encounter when your soulmate is married to someone else.
What is a soulmate relationship?
If there’s a word that defines soulmate relationships it is definitely “complex”.
Soulmate connections are not easy, and they weren’t meant to be easy. Soulmates are meant to challenge us on a deeper level, which is why when things are great for soulmate connections, things are on cloud nine.
However when things go south, your world feels like its about to end.
Soulmate connections as said, they can often be painful, specially when you have set your mind – and your heart – on a particular outcome.
Assumptions and expectations don’t sit well with soulmate relationships.
Assuming that a soulmate relationship will end in a “happily ever after” is sometimes a recipe for heartbreak and disaster.
There is a number of different reasons why a soulmate connection may not end in a romantic relationship.
Soulmate is taken
There isn’t much you can do in this case. And if you are asking if your soulmate will leave the marriage for you, it is highly unlikely. If you want to stay in your power, this should be dealt from your higher source.
When you leave this situation to the higher source or high powers you stay in your power and in control and allow this to unfold at the right time.
Will your soulmate walk away from the marriage?
Let’s consider your soulmate maybe perfectly happy and fulfilled in a relationship with someone other than a soulmate. Sometimes, the person will prioritise their marriage over the soulmate connection, even if they are unhappy, they may take months, or even years to walk away from a marriage.
If this is the case, remember that your feelings are yours, nobody can take them away, and that you are free to love without an attachment, without expecting an outcome.
Other times though, the marriage will be a milestone in this person’s life, and it could be preparing them to enter a relationship with you that your soulmate wasn’t ready for before.
Regardless of what is the case, the truth is that when your soulmate is married to someone else, you need to give up control and accept that it is a situation that is not in your hands to resolve.
For this reason, it is important that you remember to live your own life and let time make things fall into place.
Release control and surrender the soulmate connection, trusting that it will be for your highest good either way.
The major lesson here has most of the time to do with the acceptance of the decisions that others make and has the purpose to show you a hint of what unconditional love truly means.
What To Do When Your Soulmate Isn’t Ready For You?
What To Do When Your Soulmate Isn’t Ready For You?
Soulmate relationships are almost invariably complicated at best. The worst part and feeling is when your soulmate isn’t ready for you, this can suck a really big one.
And there are times in which, no matter how strong the soulmate connection we feel is, the person on the other end is just not ready. This is, for sure, an extremely frustrating situation.
Your soulmate connection is so strong and so real that you cannot fathom how the other person seems to be oblivious to it, and it gets really hard to let go of trying to control the situation.
It is never easy to go through this process, but it can help if you see it as an opportunity.
One of the main lessons we get through a soulmate relationship that quite often goes ignored is that they are not meant to merely satisfy you emotionally, but to push you to grow, and growth is quite often difficult.
It is as well crucial to remember that even though you share a made-above connection, you are still individuals on your own seperate journey, and you only have control over your own experience.
For these reasons, the best thing to do when your soulmate isn’t ready for you, is to shift the focus from trying to change their perception, to your own experience and personal development.
If your soulmate is not ready for you, there is a misalignment, but it will not resolve until you work out your own issues. Your soulmate connection cannot be severed, so you need to let go of the urge to keep the relationship going at all costs and embrace divine timing, along with touching base with your own spirit.
Soulmate journeys will always bring change, development and progress.
When your soulmate isn’t ready, your best shot is to continue this journey in faith and strength, leading the way and trusting the process.
Talk to a soulmate psychic
Still need some clarity around your soulmate readiness?
Touch base with a soulmate psychic. A soulmate psychic reading can help you reach that elation by pointing you in the right direction. It can also be used to find clarity in your current soulmate relationship and the feelings and intention from your soulmate.
Soulmate psychics can connect with the energy between you and your soulmate to identify the soul connection that the both of you share.
Through a soulmate reading you will gain the clarity and insight behind the deeper connection and gain the power to move you forward and out of the rut.
The Difference Between Soulmates And Twin Flames
There is a huge difference between soulmates and twin flames.
As with all spiritual connections, soulmates and twin flames both share very similar bonds that make them seem to be alike in nature. Yet, the quintessential parts of the different spiritual bonds are what make them unique in their own right. So for the many people out there wondering exactly what the difference is, you’ll have to understand exactly what the two are first.
By far the strongest connection that two souls can share. Not only is it a shared connection, but it is THE connection. A set of twin flames are two souls (each soul as a whole) who were born of the same core.
To paint a clear picture, twin flames are the same fire. So-to-say, who at spiritual birth were separated into two flames. The masculine and the feminine. They are thus, of the same essence but two completely whole and individual souls.
The attraction to a twin flame is unbelievably strong, sometimes even overpowering. Usually, twin flames reunite or come together as one fire after their respective journeys. They are magnetically drawn to each other through time and space. Often, they do not find each other until much later, over many years and/or even many lifetimes.
Twin flames are fuelled by mystery. It’s safe to say that what most people dream of when they think of finding a soulmate is in fact the connection shared between twin flames. But it is an extremely rare event and while the chance of finding your twin flame is said to be 50%, it may not be here and now, or in your current consciousness.
One can encounter many different soulmates in a lifetime, and so too, over many lifetimes.
There is a deep karmic connection between soulmates. Contrary to the popular belief, this type of Spiritual Connection is, in fact, not always a positive connection. Many people can connect over various aspects or characteristics. Sometimes the connection is vague and other times it’s incredibly strong, leading the parties to believe that it is a twin flame connection.
Soulmates are also drawn to each other, but the connection is one that is shared just prior to or from that moment. For example, soul mates will easily recognise each other through the strength of the connection they share. But that does not mean that they have been drawing in toward each other spiritually since the beginning of their time.
Rather, soulmates move parallel and diagonally to and from one another. Bumping into each other as the karmic connections and tunnels keep growing and moving forward. A soul mate should not be taken lightly, however, even though that soul is not a twin flame. We learn much from all the karmic connections we come into contact with. Soul Mates can teach us infinitely valuable information about ourselves and the people around us.
To suggest that the pursuit of life is to only ever look for your twin flame, would severely ignore the fact that without the learning and the wisdom acquired with the help of both karmic connections and soul mates. You would not draw closer to your twin flame.
As mentioned before, twin flames have a way of finding each other over time and space. This really only happens when the souls are ready, or when the souls need to be ready for bigger events, greater than themselves.
As twin flames are governed by unconditional love, each soul must grow independently and discover what unconditional love truly means. Therefore, it is fair to say that twin flames usually, but not always, find each other when there is little or no teaching and learning left to be done and the two are whole together.
A quick look at the differences between twin flames and soul mates
- Drawn to each other at the moment of meeting.
- Will find each other many times over many life-spans.
- There is more than one person who can be your soul mate, in fact, there are many soul mates.
- Magnetically drawn to each other through space and time continuum.
- Will find each other usually only at the end of their spiritual life journey.
- There is only one who can be your twin flame.
Soulmate and Twin Flame Purpose
As twin flames are separated and leave the source/God to begin their journey here, the understanding is that they will come to find life.
Strange isn’t that that we choose to come here to find life? But it is only with the mortal flesh that a soul can begin to truly appreciate what life is. With mortal flesh comes a variety of emotions. In order to strengthen the bond between twin flames, they must first fulfil the duty, no, the privilege of living.
This means that each individual soul will encounter other individual souls. Purpose is what brings them together. We are all teachers, we are all students, and we are all givers of Love, Hope and Faith. This is what a soul mate is.
Don’t take a soul mate lightly, honour that soul by loving with your all, by giving of your wisdom and by receiving their given wisdom openly. They are, after all preparing you for the moment you will collide with your twin flame.
Both these bonds are mutually mesmerising. When you meet a soulmate, there is something, something big that you just can’t quite put your finger on.Soulmate attraction to a soulmate can have its foundation in both light and dark and it is vital to understand this before becoming entangled with just any soul.
If you feel strong enough to take on the journey of returning the soul to the light, and you are confident it will not drain your life source from you, and then take it on with caution. Also, not all soul mate relationships are romantic in nature.
You could find that a close relative, a teacher, a mentor, even a complete stranger who connects with you deeply can all be soul mates.
Twin Flame Attraction
When you meet a twin flame, it’s as if the cosmic world has just thrown a pie in your face. It often happens when you least expect it and it does not come without challenges. As with life lessons, you have to prove that you are worthy of your twin flame. That you have learnt what you needed in order to be one with this illuminating soul.
Therefore, the attraction can be something completely unexplainable. In short, a soul mate attraction is recognised as a “knowing.” You don’t know why (or maybe you do if you’re gifted), but you just know you share a connection.
A twin flame can be more confusing. It’s less of a mutual connection and much more of a mutual feeling of “arriving”. It’s a feeling of having found home. Many people suffer from intrinsic loneliness. Regardless of the number of excellent relationships they’ve had in their lives. This disappears entirely when they meet their twin flame.
Open your spiritual self to wisdom and light and your soul will be guided to your twin flame. It is usually accepted that looking for a twin flame is ineffective. You will come together when you are both ready. This will happen when one of you is in desperate need of the other’s life force. A need that cannot be fulfilled by a soulmate connection.
Selflessness, wisdom, and unconditional love govern the twin flame connection. Learning, teaching, preparing govern the soulmate connection.
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